Thursday, July 30, 2009

My lucky number


I went to the Dr. yesterday for my 8 month check-up. Every time I go in they weigh me, take a urine sample, measure my stomach and check the baby's heartbeat. So, I get weighed and I've only gained 33 pounds (which I think is pretty good), she measures my tummy at 33cm, today I'm 33 weeks and as I was leaving I was thinking, "Oh my gosh, I'm even 33 years old." I've always loved the number 3. : )

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Her name will be Charlotte.

From the time Gene and I met, we'd casually talked about what we would name our children. We weren't sure if we'd ever have kids, but we always talked about it. It would be kind of funny sometimes because Gene would come up with the craziest ideas that no child could ever possibly escape the torture from his/her classmates with the choices he picked. I had my favorite for a long time until someone else recently took the name that I had fallen in love with and I was devastated. Long story short, I just couldn't think of that name the same. So, we threw out several more possibilities once we officially found out the sex of our baby. There were several names I loved, but Gene didn't like and vise versa. So, we narrowed it down to a few names we could somewhat agree on: Margaret, Sophie, Olivia and Charlotte. I just couldn't stop thinking about the name Charlotte. I don't know any Charlottes and I wanted something traditional, but also unique. Late one night in England, walking back to Gene's aunt's house at 1 in the morning after walking and touring London allll day long, she decided to kick me REALLY hard (probably to tell me to take it easy so she could get some sleep) and I screamed out, "OMG, Charlotte!!" Gene looks over at me and says, "Sooo. . . I guess we've decided on a name." I hesitated to tell anyone because I thought what if I change my mind or what if the ultrasound was wrong and we're really having a boy. I just wanted to be 100% sure. But the more I say it the more I love it. So, yes. . . we've finally decided. Her name will be Charlotte Louise Folger. Louise after my Granny. She may not be able to meet our little lady bug in person, but I'm sure she's watching over her in spirit. : )

Friday, July 24, 2009

8 months

Gosh, it seems like yesterday that I posted the 7 month belly shot. Time has certainly flown by for me. I almost don't want it to end! Things have been really great with no new uncomfortable symptoms. Occasionally, I feel like my stomach is stretching and if it were to stretch any further it would explode. My sweet baby moves around alot during the day, but loves to sleep at night. Either that or she's letting me sleep because she hasn't woken me up once. I'm still not sure if she's turned (with her head down) or not because I'll feel her strong kicks on my bladder. Unless she's got super strong arms because there have been some close calls and I've had to run to the bathroom to pee. My bladder is definitely not as strong as it was! lol! Sleeping has been a bit of an issue though. I can't get comfortable and sometimes I wake myself up b/c my left or right side, depending on which side I've fallen asleep on, will get really numb and start to hurt. If I sleep on my left side, Gene says I snore - right in his ear. Poor guy hasn't had a good nights sleep since January. Well, I haven't slept through the whole night either since I have to get up a couple of times to use the bathroom. I guess it's just prepping us for those sleepless nights with our baby. Luckily, I'm able to take 12 weeks off from work (due to FMLA) so I'm not as worried about getting too much sleep at first. I'll sleep when I can and by the time I go back to work, she'll be 3 months old and we'll have a well developed schedule. Knowing that I have that much time to bond with her and get adjusted to a new baby, I'm VERY relieved - to say the least. In a perfect world, I'd be a stay at home mom, but I know there are lots of benefits of sending a child to a daycare, plus the current economical situation doesn't really support a one person income. I think between the two of us, this baby will know that it's loved to the core regardless if I stay at home or go back to work. ; )

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

7 months


Just a quick update since I haven't posted my monthly picture. We're 7 months pregnant and I only have about 11 weeks left. We've got the room painted and crib put together so I'll post some progress pictures of the baby's room soon. We're taking childbirth classes at the hospital and I'm pretty freaked out about the amount of potential pain I'll be in during labor. I have one magic word for you. . . . EPIDURAL. E-P-I-D-U-R-A-L. . . . and as soon as it's medically possible and safe I will want it all. In fact, if they can just knock my ass out and when I wake up have a beautiful little baby girl in my arms, I'll be TOTALLY okay with that. ; )

Saturday, June 20, 2009

We call her Blue Steel.

We knew the time would come when we needed a family car. My truck just wasn't car seat friendly with the bench front seat and fold out seats in the back. And let's not mention the 2 Camaros Gene has parked in the garage. With those bucket seats, I was not warming up to the idea of driving them. We also knew having a baby was a big expense, so buying another vehicle and having another payment wasn't the least bit appealing, but something had to be done before September. So, we got an offer from GM that we couldn't refuse and found something that was within our price range and had everything in a car we were looking for. I'm very pleased!! It's a 2009 Pontiac Vibe GT. Has a sun roof, partial leather and a stick which made it even more affordable and has plenty of room for a car seat and stroller. We're ready for ya baby girl!!!

Thursday, June 4, 2009

6 Months!


Wow, 6 months have sure flown by! I can't believe that we're over half way there! I'm feeling much more pregnant these past few days between my sciatic nerve really bothering me, lower back pain causing me to waddle (lol!), swelling of the feet, numbness of the fingers and toes, and having to deal with restless leg syndrome at night. Plus, I'm really starting to show. And with all of these things slowing me down, I feel much more mentally stable than I've been in my whole life. I laugh & smile much more than I ever did and I don't feel anxious or down about life. Those of you that have known me well know that I have struggled with anxiety and depression for most of my life which was one of my major concerns for being pregnant. Not wanting to be on medication while being pregnant I was afraid that I would transfer those feeling to my baby, but so far I'm really doing quite well with it all. I know once the baby comes I'll have to deal with postpartum so hopefully they can figure out what's in the pregnancy hormone that makes me feel so good and give me a pill for it! ; ) Otherwise, I know I have a really great support group to get me through it.

I also have to say that Gene's been wonderful throughout my pregnancy. He's extremely patient, loving and kind and every day he never ceases to amaze me at how much he loves me. I get so emotional thinking about him holding his little baby girl for the first time and know that he's going to be an amazing father. I look forward to meeting our baby girl and I'm thankful for the wonderful little family we've created.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

We're home

Words that will forever remind me of England:

Accents, quid, Jelly Babies, Parliament, Big Ben, The London Eye, wooden box, "cup of tea", toilets/to let, pavement, banana, The Underground, chip & pin, Cambridge, London Bridge, Humped Zebra Crossing, 18418001, pence, churches, Winston Churchill, hamburger, cathedrals, King's Cross, punting, Church of England, round abouts, Picasso, Long Melford, motorbikes, Mind the Gap, knife & fork, Tower Bridge, chips/crisps, Westminster Abby, Buckingham Palace, The Loo, Henry VIII, bangers & mash, walking, cobblestone, pounds, Tower of London, castles, Clare, Lavenham, The Bell, Stonehenge, Windsor, Bath, changing of the guard, Shandy, "eat in or take away", The Tube, Number 11 bus, Bury St. Edmunds, Ipswich


I can't even begin to describe my experience in England. I just keep saying the same words over and over. . . 'AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, and BREATHTAKING'. It was the best vacation I've ever taken by far. And believe it or not 2 weeks was simply not enough time!!

We stayed with Gene's Mum's sister, Auntie Gwen and her husband Den in Haverhill, a village just east of London. Took the bus, train and tube where ever we could go. Spent a few days in London seeing all the sights, went to Cambridge a couple of days, traveled to the nearby villages admiring the landscape and took a tour bus to Stonehenge, Windsor Castle (where the Queen lives) and the Roman Baths. Just simply amazing! I had to narrow down the number of pictures I took on the trip (only 550!!) to post on the blog. Enjoy!


King's College Founded by Henry VI in 1441

Front view of the college

Inside view - I couldn't resist! From the architectural aspect this was pretty incredible!!

The London Eye

Big Ben

Tower of London

Stonehenge

Tower Bridge

And the family

When we have another chance, I'm definitely going back. And maybe to live. . . . . . .

; )